When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. Every cloud has a silver lining. Whatever happens, happens for a reason. Blessings come in disguise.
Nearly everyone has heard these sayings at least once in their lives and probably rolled their eyes. It is incredibly difficult to look on the bright side when all we want to do is wallow in self-pity or mourn what we have lost.
In no place is this more applicable than high school. Four years filled with stress, drama, and hard work are guaranteed to bring both highs and lows. However, with every redirection and challenge, an opportunity is created.
Over the last 1,304 days, John Carroll has provided me with four opportunities that have made me who I am today.
Opportunity One: As someone who struggles with religion, I went to a Catholic school.
My first religion class freshman year was not something I was looking forward to. I felt unprepared and apathetic towards the subject, and I was convinced that was never going to change.
Little did I know, learning religion was not the most important thing that would happen in that classroom. While I did gain knowledge about Peter and Paul and the Ecumenical Councils, I also gained lifelong skills of communication and understanding.
The ability to listen to someone with whom you disagree is no easy task. However, being able and willing to understand others’ perspectives and eloquently respond is a critical skill that the Religion Department has gifted me.
Opportunity Two: I quit the sports that I had played for years.
When I was ten years old, I was convinced I was a basketball and lacrosse star. I had daydreamed about representing JC on the court and field and truly believed that is where I would thrive.
Then, basketball season came, and it was impossible for me to play due to COVID-based requirements. I was disappointed but still looking forward to the lacrosse season.
From the moment I stepped onto the field, riddled with anxiety that made me feel sick, I knew the sport was no longer a good fit. I was surrounded by so much talent and amazing women who put in countless hours of work. I did not want to put in those countless hours.
So, I took the time I gained from quitting both lacrosse and basketball and explored my other passions through Mock Trial, Envirothon, The Patriot, and many others. Without sacrificing athletics, I would not have gotten so involved in other aspects of the JC community that I now love.
Opportunity Three: I struggled in challenging classes.
I will admit that I am a perfectionist. Getting a grade any lower than 97 seemed unacceptable to me. However, I was humbled by some of my more demanding classes and learned that perfection is not a reasonable expectation. Now I simply strive to put my best foot forward.
Additionally, by pushing myself to take these classes, I also pushed myself to learn proper studying, notetaking, and self-advocation skills that I will take with me to college.
Opportunity Four: At times, I was lonely.
One of the most complicated parts of high school is the friendships built and lost. Drifting away from friends is never easy, but it can end up as something great.
First, I began to embrace solitude. Sometimes, it is okay to be by yourself and spend some time reflecting. Second, I made new friends who I never would have met otherwise. When one door closes, a window opens.
High school can truly be an amazing experience if you take advantage of every opportunity. Make the most out of your short time at John Carroll, even when you get lemons or a cloud.