If you asked me where I “belonged” at the beginning of my freshman year, I would have looked at you like a deer in headlights. I didn’t realize that the answer was right in front of me in the sport I love most: basketball.
I got to know my teammates on and off the court throughout my freshman year practices and games. We shared countless victories throughout the season and defeats — the biggest being the loss of the championship game against Mt. Carmel. The long bus rides to away games are something I still reflect upon. They became an environment for deep conversations, jokes, and games. Looking back, I would not trade those memories for the world. Those moments bonded us in ways that went beyond basketball.
Fast forward to today, and those same girls are now my best friends. We are all very close, even when we are not in season. Many of my weekends consist of group hangouts and sleepovers.
Without branching out of my comfort zone and trying out for varsity my freshman year, I would not have the sense of belonging I have today.
My best friends have served as a support system for me, being there when I needed them the most. Not only have they supported me, but they have helped me grow as a player and person. By branching out, taking a risk, and doing something out of my comfort zone I was able to find my people.
If there is one thing I have learned, it is that community does not always look like what you expect. For me, it came with a pair of Currys squeaking on hardwood floors and the rhythmic bounce of a ball. Basketball brought us together, but friendship is what keeps us connected.
Whether it is basketball, art, or any other passion, I truly believe everyone has a way to find their people. For me, it was stepping onto the court. And for you? It might just be trying something new and taking a chance.
